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****I love Negativity ****

You might be surprised with the heading and I am sure, it will make you think what this is. Here “I” is not only me, it’s all of us.

Let me ask you a question, if you truly love someone then what happens. Isn’t it, that person is in your thoughts all the time. Whenever you are talking, thinking, working or doing anything, he/she dominates your thoughts and you always like talking about your love very passionately.

Did you ever realize that we all love negativity as that’s the first thought which comes to our mind. When we think of any things either it’s related to our work, success, money or for sake anything, the first thought which comes to our mind is negative. e.g. I will fail in this . I can’t do it, I won’t be rich. More than that when we have to give any suggestion to anyone, we start with negativity by saying this to justify our negative thoughts that I am being Devil’s advocate. Why do we do so? This is because we love negativity.

Now, the biggest question that comes; why do we love negativity?

It is very interesting to understand the reason behind our passion and love towards this most important trait of ours. I will share another example of electrical wiring; mostly the electrical system is going to work the way it is wired. If we wire something to work on 110 volts, it will work on 110 volts. On the other hand, if we wire something for 220 volts, it will work accordingly. Similarly if we wire something for AC or DC, it will work accordingly.

Now, why do we start everything with negativity in general??

This is because we are wired to do so. Now you might be thinking, “Why are we wired like that?” The simple answer to that is; our electrician which was our society, parents, relatives, system, and so on, wired us to attract negativity from our childhood. Now you might be thinking; “why do they do so?” That is because that’s what they have been taught and they are passing this to generations.

I am not saying that every single individual works on that wiring, there is a small percentage of us who fought, not only with themselves but with their electricians (as I mentioned above) and created a thought process to fight with negativity every time they get a negative thought. They fought with themselves and resisted to that dominating thought, which was their first love, through positivity. It was not an easy job, but they did it because they were determined to do so. Their struggle against their own negativity made them the role model of the society and their success level was totally different than others.

Just do a small experiment with yourself and keep a check on your thoughts for few days. You will realize that 95% of the times your brain get attracted to negativity. Every time you feel that, convince yourself against it and send a strong signal to your electrical system against negativity. Slowly and steadily you will be able to change your wiring of thoughts and it will not only change your life but will change your coming generations as well. Otherwise you will keep wiring them what you have been wired with.

I am sure you like it and it will provoke your thought process.

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(Special thanks to my daughter who helped to write this article)

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“Don’t just be a Dreamer, Be a logical Dreamer”

How many times we hear or actually practice that we dream about something big or we dream about success. Often people talk about it and emphasize that if you want to be successful dream about it. Also this is very common that dreams are those which you see with open eyes.

But is that enough that we just dream about it and we will achieve the desired result. That’s not the real power, Real power lies in logical dreaming. Off course I am not asking not to dream big, but once you dream about it then you have to prepare a plan to achieve it. Once you have made a plan then you have to execute the plan, gather your resources and also analyze the outcome. If you are not getting the desired outcome then re analyze the plan again, make necessary modifications and repeat the process until you achieve your dream. Just day dreaming without any action will lead to frustration only.

Just imagine that everyday you are dreaming about something and not taking any action , that will lead to frustration and you will end up reaching no where .

The bigger the dream is, harder you have to work for it. When you dream about something, it’s better to kiss your ass and make sure that you leave no stone unturned to realize that dream .

I am sure this small write up will give a new direction to your dreams and you will become a logical dreamer rather than just be a dreamer.

If you care you will share.

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“Don’t just be a Dreamer, Be a logical Dreamer “

How many times we hear or actually practice that we dream about something big or we dream about success. Often people talk about it and emphasize that if you want to be successful dream about it. Also this is very common that dreams are those which you see with open eyes.

But is that enough that we just dream about it and we will achieve the desired result. That’s not the real power, Real power lies in logical dreaming. Off course I am not asking not to dream big, but once you dream about it then you have to prepare a plan to achieve it. Once you have made a plan then you have to execute the plan, gather your resources and also analyze the outcome. If you are not getting the desired outcome then re analyze the plan again, make necessary modifications and repeat the process until you achieve your dream. Just day dreaming without any action will lead to frustration only.

Just imagine that everyday you are dreaming about something and not taking any action , that will lead to frustration and you will end up reaching no where .

The bigger the dream is, harder you have to work for it. When you dream about something, it’s better to kiss your ass and make sure that you leave no stone unturned to realize that dream .

I am sure this small write up will give a new direction to your dreams and you will become a logical dreamer rather than just be a dreamer.

If you care you will share.

Don’t hesitate to like, comment & share ….,

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Anger : A Punishment

What is anger: Anger is the punishment which you are giving to yourself for other people’s action.

If you want to grow in your life, stay away from this. You might have seen many people who maintain their cool and calm in every problematic situation, just asses their level of success. With anger you can win the moment but you can’t win the hearts of people.

There is a simple formula, the more you grow, cooler you have to become. If you don’t learn how to control anger, then gods bless you. More success brings you to deal with more people and most of the times you become smarter with success. You will see lot of stupidity happening in your surroundings, love that stupidity and smile on it rather than being angry.

If by you bring angry, stupidity can be reduced, for sure then do it . But you will find it’s not happening so why to give yourself a punishment for other’s stupidity. Make life simple and make it cool.

I will share a small story which might help many to manage their cool.

The Nails in the Fence

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Motivation

“Why your intelligence has no value “

You might be thinking , what kind of statement is this . What I am talking about . It sounds so silly , until today we are under impression that intelligence is everything and we all want to be intelligent to get success in our life .

Let me elaborate with an example , let’s say you have a Ferrari and everyone else living in your street has Ferrari as well . How much value your Ferrari have in the street . Not really much because everyone has it . Ferrari has value only when other people in the street have other regular cars . If that is the case when you will take your Ferrari out , they all will look and get impressed and you will feel elevated.

Another example , let’s say your kid score 90% marks in high school . It’s really good marks and you will feel proud on your kid . He/She wants to get an admission in top university where the cut out marks are 95% , in that case the same 90% seems to be very less .

Same happens with intelligence , when you are in top 1% , and competing with other equally or more intelligent people , then your intelligence has no value , as everyone is equally and more intelligent than you .

Then what really matters at that level is What you do with your intelligence and that is called your attitude. After a level your attitude determines your level of success .

From now on wards if you pray to god to give you an intelligent kid, don’t forget to ask for the one with a right attitude because that is more important than anything else in the life .

I am sure I might have put little addition to your perspective of thinking .

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Motivation Real Estate

Next Level in Save Max Hierarchy Model

Save Max Real Estate Inc., a leading Real Estate Corporate House, moving at great pace towards growth of its own people today announced its next level of Team Leaders who are chosen to lead the aspiring REALTORS® trying to be successful in the real estate industry. As the company is rapidly growing its reach in & around GTA, lots of aspiring REALTORS® are keen to take the benefit of the Unique Save Max Hierarchy Model. For this, it is really important that we have the next generation of Team Leaders who can support the growing team.

This announcement came as an extension of Save Max’s successful Real Estate Hierarchy Model where in every Team Member is provided shoulder to shoulder support and training to help the new REALTORS® be successful in Real Estate Business. Existing Save Max Leadership comprises of Sachin Gupta, Lalit Bhatla, Balraj Puri, and Gurmeet Gill. To ensure that the new REALTOR® joining Save Max enjoys same level of support, it’s important to create the next level of Leadership too. This will not only help the New Team Members but will also help the new leadership to work towards achieving their goal to become an Entrepreneur. 

Raman Dua, CEO, Save Max Real Estate Inc., Said, “We have the experience needed to deploy our unique model and provide the elevated level of support to all those aspiring REALTOR® or REALTORS® who are in the industry for long time but not able to perform because of lack of support. I and my existing Team Leaders have enjoyed working with new leadership team, we’re excited and sure that new leadership will be providing the same or more advanced support to New Team Members and will take the company to the next level.”

“At Save Max we are equipped to make effective decisions, based on what individual REALTOR® requirements are and our REALTORS® have always outperformed the competition” Said, Raman Dua.